Finding Joy, Confidence, and Community on the Ice – A Journey Into Inclusive Hockey

Growing up in Dunnville, Ontario, hockey often felt intimidating. For Jennifer LoveGrove, the culture surrounding the sport seemed unwelcoming, and she avoided it for years. But as an adult living in Toronto, she discovered a very different side of the game — one built on inclusion, creativity, and community.

A Fresh Start in Toronto

In her late twenties, Jennifer was searching for connection. A friend introduced her to the Good Times Hockey League of the Arts, a unique, gender-inclusive league where players not only competed on the ice but also contributed through music, costumes, and art. The combination of hockey and creativity immediately caught her attention.

Determined to try, she bought her first pair of skates from a local store and began practicing at Toronto’s outdoor rinks. Although learning was challenging, every small improvement — from skating without falling to landing her first pass — built her confidence.

Building Skills and Finding Community

Jennifer soon joined a co-ed hockey program, where she found supportive instructors and teammates. Encouraged by their positivity, she dedicated herself to the game and started playing several times a week.

When she finally joined the arts league, she discovered a welcoming environment filled with writers, musicians, and people from diverse backgrounds. Creativity and camaraderie were celebrated as much as skill on the ice. At one tournament, her team even performed classic songs rewritten with hockey themes — and won an award for originality.

More Than Just a Game

Over the years, hockey became much more than a sport for Jennifer. It gave her lifelong friends, memorable experiences, and a sense of belonging. From fun costume tournaments to championship wins, she experienced both the excitement of competition and the warmth of community.

Of course, not every moment was perfect. Like in many sports, she sometimes encountered challenges. But what stood out was how issues were addressed — with clear rules, fair enforcement, and an emphasis on respect.

A Positive Future for Hockey

Now, after nearly two decades of playing, Jennifer reflects on how hockey transformed her life. Once a sport she viewed with hesitation, it became a source of joy, empowerment, and connection.

Her story shows that with inclusivity, creativity, and respect, hockey can be more than just a game — it can be a community where everyone has a place on the ice.